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5 February 2016

How can Hypnotherapy Help you Get Through The Death of a Loved One?

Research has shown that there are some well-defined stages of grief, including shock, anger, sadness, guilt and finally acceptance. Some happen individually, some happen concurrently, but eventually most of us arrive at a sense of acceptance.

As a hypnotherapist in London and Hampshire (who also offers effective online sessions), grief is something that I am occasionally asked to help out with.

While hypnotherapy can help, I think it’s important that people know it’s perfectly OK to go through the grieving process. More importantly, it’s not OK to be anaesthetised throughout it.

You need to grieve in order to heal, and it can be helpful to know there are stages, that these are normal – and that they will pass.

Some say that grieving may take six months, some say a year, and some say longer. But clearly, if your grief is continuing on an ongoing basis well beyond this, you may need a little professional help to move on.

The hypnoptherapeutic ‘Havening’ technique for sadness

There’s a powerful technique that can be used by anyone that can rapidly help them get rid of distress and sadness, and it’s called Havening.

I’ve described it more fully in other postings, and it is something we help people to do when they come to see us for hypnotherapy for anxiety, stress and other things, including self confidence issues.

It involves stroking the body and first getting rid of the negative emotion you don’t want to feel, and then Havening positive terms such as “calm” and “happy”. It won’t get you over the person you’ve lost, but it can help you in a low moment. You don’t have to tolerate the pain.

Therapy can be amazing when it comes to helping people who have lost someone. My own mum died in 1988; I was 16 at the time, and it took me until 2010 to be able to deal with that.

I’d tried a lot of therapy and it wasn’t until I eventually found the right therapeutic key that I finally let my mum go. So please: don’t wait that long.

Creating a ‘memory box’ for a lasting moment together

There’s something you can do now if you know someone is about to pass away because of old age or illness, and I would heartily recommend it: create a memory box together.

It’s a really lovely thing to do, as is asking them to write future letters. These are where you get your mum or grandma, for example, to write a letter for you that is only to be opened on the day you get married, or perhaps it’s a letter to your future first-born.

It allows a very powerful connection to continue between you and your loved one long after they’ve gone.

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